Halloween Weekend

Below is a photo montage to the weekend that was Halloween.

Funny how last year I was a flapper and the other people I were with (Matt, Kinsella and Nator) were top gun. The this year, I was with 3 flappers, 4 Star Trek characters and 1 Pauly D…. Not sure how Quinn from Glee fits into that mix (or Pauly D for that matter) but I am ok with it.

Let’s be serious, Quinnifer Bray would never go for a Trekkie.

Unfortunately this picture does not do Nick (Pauly D from Jersery Shore) justice. Let’s just say, we heard a lot of “Cabs are here!”

and “It’s t-shirt time!”

 

On Sunday I had the pleasure of working a Taste Buds event. It was a Halloween party for the Bowery Babes (a sort of sorority group for NYC mothers… I know, enough said) where I lead cookie decorating. It goes without saying that my cookies were far superior to any that these 2 and 3-year-old kids made.

Between working on Friday, the Halloween party on Sunday and Trick-or-Treating last night, I saw a lot of super cute costumes. But the winning award goes to my favorite niece puppy who dressed up as a little Chiquita banana! Honestly, how cute is Sunny?

Fill Me Up With PMA!

In an attempt to gain as much PMA (positive mental attitude) as possible, I have been making strategic moves:

1. Last night Matt and I had dinner at a favorite restaurant. The food is marginal and the bill is typically way hirer than I think it deserves to be. So why do we go there, you ask…. for Morris. Morris is an elderly bartender from Ireland. When you take a sit at this bar, it is like returning home. Kennedy’s is the place to go when you want to be taken care of and is certainly one of my favorite little things in life.

2. I have been reading old letters that I wrote to Matt. He is the cutest fiance ever and saved EVERY card, note and letter than I have given him. I love him for seeing that we had something special from day one.

3. While the return of many television shows used to bring me enjoyment, I am starting to realize that my brain is turning to mush from shows like: Jersey Shore, Kate Plus 8 and Say Yes to the Dress. I have decided to put down the remote and pick up a book  (or rather, my Kindle). I recently enjoyed the Book Thief and I am now reading a VERY interested book titled, “Room: A Novel.” I am about half way through and highly recommend this book for people who like book involving developmental psychology (like “A Child Called It by David Pelzer). No more mushy brain!

4. I have been trying to find a new blog every day. Today’s blog is The Neo-Traditionalist. I found her blog while taking my daily dose of Once Wed. They featured this bloggers SUPER cute wedding and of course provided a link to her blog.

Katie’s blog is filled with PMA, creativity and “little things.” I can’t wait to start reading through her posts and living according to her inspired manifesto!

Keep enjoying the little things in life!

The Weekend Update

Middle School was one of the best times of my life. To this day, I claim that my culminating year, 8th grade, was the best year of my life. Clearly Matt doesn’t appreciate this comment since I didn’t meet him until Freshman year of High School. I have a lot of memories of dances, field hockey games, class officer meetings and of course, Mount Cardigan. However, one strange memory seems to sick out in my mind.

My middle school French teacher, Madame Meyers, had a poster of Val Kilmer hanging behind her desk in her classroom. While I never quiet understood her obsession with him (he seemed OLD!) I certainly found her stories entertaining. Madame Meyers would talk about how her son was going to be a famous actor some day and he would introduce her to Val. As much as I liked Madame Meyers, at the age of 12, I was wise enough to know that not everyone who says they want to be an actor, actually becomes one. Honestly, who grows up in Bedford, NH attends Manchester High School West, and goes on to become a famous actor? Well apparently, Madame Meyers’ son – Seth Meyers actor and lead writer on Saturday Night Live.

So my tribute to Madame Meyers and her unwavering support of her son, is my version of the weekend update (minus all of the really funny jokes).

While I did not accomplish everything on my To Do List, I had a good weekend and I started off with amazing productivity.

1. After work on Friday, I went uptown and taught a swimming lesson to two of my favorite 11 and 12 year olds. I essentially turned them into Olympic caliber swimmers in the span of 1 hour.

2. When I got home from my lesson, Matt was taking a nap (he had to wake up at 3:30am Friday morning) so I took the opportunity to finish the apron I had started to make earlier in the week. I based my pattern off of the apron that they sell at William Sonoma. I have to admit, I even impressed myself with the final outcome. Let me know if you think this is good enough to start making these and selling them on Etsy.

3. On Saturday, Matt and I banged out a 50 mile bike ride to Piermont and back. We stopped for brunch at the half way point, which was a great idea, until we started biking home (which is 99% uphill) and the french toast I thought looked so good on the menu, didn’t feel so good in my stomach. We even out-did ourselves with a 2.5 mile run immediately following the bike. Matt is doing the NYC triathlon in July and had a moment of sheer panic when he realized this was less than 2 months away. He felt pretty good about completing his first “brick” of the year, until he work up the next morning and felt the pain in his legs!

4. Saturday night we went out to long Long Island to see a band that we were considering for our wedding. Not only did we love the band, but when we were talking to the lead singer afterwards and he asked us where our wedding was, and we responded by saying outside of Boston, he whispered “Don’t tell anyone but…” and rolled up his sleeve to reveal a sick Boston Red Sox tattoo. I was pretty much sold at that point.

In addition to seeing a great band and FINALLY going out to a bar with my sister, I had my own Jersey Shore experience. Let’s just say, Long Island isn’t far from Jerz and the stereotypes hold true there as well. The bar had multiple flat screen tvs playing ultimate fighting the entire night. Honestly, the owners of the bar should know that these guys don’t need anything else to get their testosterone firing… They were more fired up by the fighting than by the band or the girls. Not sure if that is more of a statement on the guys or the girls….

After that my weekend fell off track a little. I convinced Matt that he didn’t really need to watch Tropic Thunder and we could send it back so that it would stop clogging up our Netflix queue (score one for Molly). unfortunately, Matt decided that instead of waiting for the next movie to come, he would just watch it on demand (negative score for Molly?). So now, as I write my blog (at my new desk!) he is watching a lame movie that Howard Stern suggested. I bet you can all guess how much I am enjoying that!

While I like making To-DoLists, and I LOVE crossing things off of them, sometimes life doesn’t always follow a plan. Sometimes, your lists are long, your time is short and you just can’t find enough time to get everything done. However, the beauty of life is that it goes on. The Container Store will be there next weekend. I can take a personal day this week to help Abby paint her apartment. And living in New York City, you don’t need to have food in your refrigerator – there is ALWAYS a restaurant open and willing to deliver. You need to take time to do the things that aren’t on your To-Do-List; visit a friend and tell them you love them, belt out the lyrics to your favorite song when it comes on the radio, and dance as you walk down the street. Never let yourself become to busy crossing things off your list to dance.

“She loved to dance and point her toes in any direction
And when she spun it stirred her soul
She caught herself in the mirrors that engulfed her life
She felt the rhythm connected to life
and the harmony of love
She’ll never stop dancing
The spotlight is her refuge”
-Trisha Bassi